The Ecclesia Swingers Club – A Sanctuary for Sophisticated Exploration and Connection

An Exclusive Lifestyle Venue Built on Trust, Elegance, and Erotic Discovery

At The Ecclesia Swingers Club, we invite open-minded adults into a world where luxury, liberation, and consensual exploration meet in perfect harmony. Designed for couples, single women, and selected respectful single men, our club fosters an atmosphere where boundaries are honoured, fantasies are explored, and authentic connections are made.

Located in a discreet, easily accessible part of East Midlands, The Ecclesia is more than just a venue—it’s a community of like-minded individuals who value discretion, safety, and sensuality. We’ve crafted every detail of the club to deliver a refined experience where elegance and indulgence coexist.

Modern Design Meets Timeless Intimacy

Elegant Reception and Social Lounge

Guests are welcomed into The Ecclesia Swingers Club through a stylish reception area that immediately sets the tone for what lies ahead—refined, discreet, and welcoming. Our social lounge is the first space where energy begins to build, conversation flows, and chemistry starts to spark.

• Ambient lighting and plush seating create a relaxed, luxurious vibe

• A licensed bar serves premium wines, craft cocktails, and non-alcoholic refreshments

• Soft music and gentle background beats elevate the atmosphere without overwhelming it

• Intimate booths and conversation zones encourage low-pressure engagement and social mingling

The lounge is designed for guests to unwind, meet fellow members, and ease into the evening in a comfortable, non-judgmental environment.

Intimate and Purpose-Built Play Spaces

Our venue spans multiple rooms, each themed and curated to evoke a specific mood and sensual experience. Every area is cleaned thoroughly between uses, equipped with premium products, and arranged to ensure comfort, consent, and privacy.

• Couples Retreat Room – A private, softly lit space with luxury bedding and ambient soundscapes, perfect for personal moments of connection

• The Dome Suite – A group play zone with low beds, mirrors, and adjustable lighting for shared exploration

• The Sanctum – A dark room corridor for anonymous and sensory play, designed to heighten the thrill of the unknown

• The Ritual Chamber – Our fully-equipped BDSM dungeon, complete with St. Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, cuffs, collars, rope points, and aftercare areas

• Exhibition Area – A semi-open space for voyeurs and exhibitionists, complete with plush seating and viewing windows

• The Bi-Femme Lounge – A soft and feminine room exclusively for female-female interaction and bi-curious connection

Each room features free protection, high-quality lubricants, wipes, fresh linens, and clear etiquette signage. Staff discreetly ensure cleanliness, order, and safety at all times.

Signature Events That Celebrate Desire and Diversity

Immersive Evenings Curated for Every Mood

The Ecclesia hosts themed events weekly, each crafted to provide a unique atmosphere and community dynamic. Our events are designed to balance flirtation, intimacy, and fun, ensuring every member can engage at their comfort level.

• Sanctified Saturdays – Our most popular night, known for its high energy, beautifully dressed guests, and full venue access

• Bi-Femme Thursdays – A celebration of female-led exploration, designed to be supportive, empowering, and sensual

• Kink & Curiosity Nights – Perfect for newcomers to BDSM or those wishing to deepen their kink experience

• Couples-Only Evenings – Intimate events offering space for deep connection, soft play, and uninterrupted privacy

• The Velvet Ritual – A premium, invite-only event with live performers, rituals, and exclusive access to private rooms

• Sensual Sunday Soirées – Low-key afternoons with massage sessions, tantra workshops, and mellow vibes

All events include ice-breaker activities, welcome briefings, and guest ratios curated for balance and comfort. Dress codes are strictly observed to uphold a classy, respectful environment.

Membership-Only Access with Strict Standards of Conduct

The Ecclesia operates on a strict members-only basis, ensuring that every person who enters the club understands, accepts, and embodies our values of consent, discretion, and equality.

Membership Levels:

• Couples Membership – Full access to all club nights, discounted workshop rates, and priority booking

• Single Female Membership – Always welcomed, with complimentary access to select events

• Single Male Membership – Limited to specific events and approved via application and interview only

All new members must complete an application form, including identity verification and agreement to our code of conduct, which outlines expectations around consent, etiquette, and responsible behaviour.

Workshops and Education for Lifestyle Enrichment

The Ecclesia believes that empowerment through education is key to safe and satisfying exploration. We host monthly workshops and intimate learning sessions designed to support members in developing confidence, skill, and emotional intelligence.

Topics include:

• Consensual Communication and Non-Verbal Cues

• Intro to Ethical Non-Monogamy and Open Relationships

• BDSM Basics and Safe Exploration

• Erotic Massage Techniques for Couples

• Navigating Jealousy and Building Trust in the Lifestyle

• The Art of Seduction and Erotic Mindfulness

These sessions are led by professional sex educators, certified coaches, and respected lifestyle mentors. Workshops are interactive, inclusive, and held in private studios within the venue.

Unmatched Cleanliness, Safety, and Consent Enforcement

The health and well-being of our members is a top priority. We maintain rigorous hygiene and safety protocols, ensuring that everyone can engage freely without concern.

• Sanitized rooms between every session using professional-grade cleaners

• Protection, dental dams, gloves, and lubricants freely available

• Staff trained in first aid, crisis de-escalation, and consent enforcement

• No photography, filming, or mobile phone use allowed beyond reception

• Private lockers and changing rooms available to all guests

• Clear signage outlining playroom rules and boundaries

Consent is not a suggestion. Any breach is dealt with immediately and results in permanent expulsion from the club.

Private Hire and VIP Booking Options

For those who seek complete privacy or a curated celebration, The Ecclesia offers exclusive private hire of rooms or the entire venue. Our concierge service can assist with:

• Fantasy scene setups with customised music, lighting, and décor

• Champagne and aphrodisiac catering packages

• Private performances or themed entertainment

• Anniversary or birthday celebrations for couples or groups

• Bespoke BDSM experiences with professional facilitators

All private bookings are discreetly arranged, and staff will work with you to ensure every detail matches your vision.

Booking, Access, and Location Details

All attendance requires advance booking via our encrypted member portal. Once confirmed, guests will receive full event information, directions, and club etiquette guides.

• Location: East Midlands – exact address disclosed upon booking

• Opening Hours:

  • Fridays & Saturdays: 8:00 PM – 3:00 AM

  • Selected Thursdays and Sundays: Times vary by event

• Transport: Secure on-site parking, taxi and rideshare drop-off zones, discreet entry

• Amenities: Changing facilities, showers, lockers, air conditioning, and lounge areas

We aim to create a space that is not only physically accessible but emotionally safe and spiritually fulfilling.

Join The Ecclesia – Where Desire Finds Its Sanctuary

The Ecclesia Swingers Club stands as a sanctuary for those who seek connection over chaos, intimacy over indulgence, and a refined approach to the erotic arts. Every event, every room, every interaction is designed to cultivate clarity, consent, and personal liberation.

Whether you’re taking your first step into the lifestyle or returning to deepen your exploration, we welcome you to a space where your truth is celebrated, your limits are respected, and your desires are met with elegance.

Apply for membership today and enter a community where erotic exploration is sacred.

The Ecclesia Swingers Club — where intimacy, intelligence, and indulgence converge.