JayDees Swingers Club – The Benchmark for Lifestyle Venues in the East Midlands

A Luxurious Lifestyle Club Where Elegance Meets Exploration

JayDees Swingers Club stands as one of the UK’s most established and reputable lifestyle venues, offering a welcoming, respectful, and discreet environment for open-minded couples, singles, and swingers. Situated in a private rural location in the heart of the East Midlands, JayDees combines luxury, inclusivity, and sensual freedom under one roof, attracting both newcomers and seasoned lifestylers from across the country.

With over two decades of experience in hosting premium lifestyle events, we pride ourselves on delivering an atmosphere that is as relaxed as it is erotic, ensuring that all guests feel comfortable, empowered, and free to explore at their own pace.

Elegant Facilities and Thoughtfully Designed Spaces

The venue has been purpose-built to accommodate the full spectrum of lifestyle experiences, whether guests are looking for intimate one-on-one time, group interaction, or social engagement. The design is centred around flow, ambience, and functionality, providing multiple zones for different energies and desires.

Core Facilities:

• Reception Lounge – A discreet and professional check-in area with trained staff to welcome you, answer questions, and ensure confidentiality from the outset.

• Luxurious Bar Area – Serving a variety of drinks in a stylish, ambient lounge setting. Guests are invited to mingle, relax, and ease into the night with soft music and mood lighting.

• Dance Floor and DJ Booth – Hosting themed nights and events with live DJs playing seductive house, soul, and groove-infused music to elevate the energy.

• Multiple Playrooms – Each room offers a unique experience, including:

  • The Red Room – A sensually lit space designed for couples and voyeurs.

  • Mirror Lounge – Lined with mirrors for enhanced visual connection and group interaction.

  • BDSM Room – Equipped with restraints, spanking benches, and crosses for light-to-moderate kink play in a safe and supervised environment.

  • Couples-Only Retreat – An exclusive space for couples seeking privacy in a refined setting.

• Private Lockable Rooms – For those desiring complete discretion or intimate time away from the public play areas.

• Hot Tub and Spa Area – Set in a tranquil, softly lit area with comfortable seating, towels, and optional use of massage oils and candles.

• Outdoor Garden and Chill-Out Terrace – Perfect for catching your breath under the stars, socialising in a relaxed setting, or enjoying a quiet conversation by the firepit.

• Changing Rooms and Shower Facilities – Spotlessly maintained and fully equipped with lockers, hairdryers, and toiletries for freshening up.

Diverse Event Calendar for All Lifestyles

At JayDees Swingers Club, we offer a rich and varied schedule of themed events to suit every taste and comfort level. From beginner-friendly social nights to exclusive couple-only experiences, each evening is carefully curated to create the perfect balance between fun, flirtation, and freedom.

Popular Weekly and Monthly Events:

• Fabulous Fridays – A balanced mix of couples and single females in a laid-back social setting that encourages connection and sensual spontaneity.

• Seductive Saturdays – Our flagship night. A glamorous and high-energy event attended by our most experienced members. Strict dress code. Priority access for couples.

• Ladies’ Temptation Night – A celebration of feminine sensuality. Solo ladies enjoy complimentary drinks and a welcoming, pressure-free environment.

• Bi-Curious & Fluid Fridays – Open to bisexual men, women, and couples who want to connect in a space of total acceptance and sexual freedom.

• Naughty Midweek Mixers – A quieter, softer approach ideal for newcomers and those who prefer a less crowded, more conversational atmosphere.

• Fetish & Fantasy Evenings – Light bondage, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and other kinks explored in a consensual, controlled space.

Every event is managed by a professional team trained in lifestyle etiquette, ensuring that guests are informed, safe, and respected throughout the night.

Strict Entry Criteria and Membership Process

To maintain a safe, balanced, and upscale environment, all attendees must follow a strict vetting process and adhere to our code of conduct. We are committed to ensuring that every guest contributes to a respectful, inclusive, and empowering atmosphere.

Admission Requirements:

• Minimum Age: 25+

• Photo ID Required for first-time visitors

• Pre-registration Recommended via our secure website

• Dress Code: Elegant, stylish, and sensual. Men – shirts, trousers, smart shoes. Women – lingerie, cocktail dresses, or themed wear. No sportswear, casual attire, or scruffy presentation accepted.

• Single Males: Welcome only on designated nights and under strict behavioural guidelines. Limited availability.

• Couples and Single Females: Always prioritised. Discounted entry on selected nights.

First-time guests are offered a guided orientation tour of the venue and an introduction to etiquette and house rules. Our experienced hosts are available throughout the night to assist, guide, or intervene if necessary.

The Foundation of Our Club: Respect, Consent, and Cleanliness

Our core values are built on a simple yet powerful foundation: consent, mutual respect, and safety. All members and guests are expected to understand and adhere to these values without exception.

Code of Conduct:

• No Means No – Full stop. Guests who disregard this are removed immediately and banned permanently.

• Ask Before You Touch – Consent must be enthusiastic and explicit.

• Hygiene First – Showers are required before entering play areas. Towels, toiletries, and wipes are provided.

• No Photography or Video – Phones must remain in lockers at all times.

• Substance Use Prohibited – Alcohol served responsibly. Drug use will result in immediate expulsion.

• Be Mindful – Respect the vibe of each room and the boundaries of others.

We provide a safe and supportive space for exploration, where you can let go without ever feeling exposed, judged, or pressured.

Ideal Location with Private Access and Parking

JayDees Swingers Club is conveniently located in the East Midlands, making it a central hub for lifestyle guests from Leicester, Nottingham, Derby, Peterborough, and beyond.

• Secure rural setting with no public visibility

• Large private car park with CCTV

• Easy access via A14 and A1(M)

• Taxis and private hire cars welcome

• Onsite accommodation available on select event nights

Many guests pair their visit with a weekend getaway, enjoying the nearby countryside, spas, and boutique hotels for an extended escape.

Why JayDees Swingers Club Is One of the UK’s Most Trusted Lifestyle Venues

With over 20 years of excellence in the UK lifestyle scene, JayDees has become synonymous with trust, discretion, and premium hospitality. Our welcoming community, elegant venue, and expertly hosted events have earned us a loyal member base and top reviews across all lifestyle platforms.

What Makes Us Exceptional:

• Purpose-built, elegant venue tailored for lifestyle play

• Diverse events catering to a wide range of interests and identities

• Inclusive and respectful environment

• Transparent pricing and booking

• Professional, friendly staff with lifestyle experience

• Consistently excellent hygiene and facility standards

We are proud to be recommended by seasoned lifestylers and newcomers alike, earning consistent 5-star feedback and ranking among the top clubs on platforms like Fabswingers.

Book Your Visit to JayDees Swingers Club

Whether you’re curious and cautious or confident and experienced, JayDees Swingers Club offers the perfect space to connect, explore, and indulge. We invite you to join our vibrant community and discover what true lifestyle hospitality feels like.

Booking Information:

• Visit our official website to view upcoming events and secure your spot

• Submit your membership application online

• Receive your welcome pack, dress code guide, and directions

• Join us for a night of intimacy, respect, and discovery

JayDees Swingers Club is more than a venue. It is a destination where boundaries fade, confidence rises, and sensuality thrives. Join us and experience what it truly means to be part of the UK’s most trusted and elegant lifestyle club.